What Would You Tell Me About How to Handle My Potential Case If I Was your Family Member?

Posted by Scott Edwards | Jul 11, 2019 | 0 Comments

I was still in bed on the morning of March 31, 2014, when I got the text message everyone fears. My brother-in-law texted me only this:

"Kimberly and I were in a really bad car accident this morning. They are taking Kimberly to the SICU, she had a broken leg and a crushed spleen, a liver laceration and a bruised kidney. Can you please try and get a hold of your parents?"

I wrote a post about this day in my own personal blog (which is no longer active) but still has the content I authored. You can read the post here.

As the facts of the collision developed and the severity of her injuries became more apparent, it was clear she needed legal representation. She had hundreds of thousands of dollars in past medical bills, lost wages, and a future filled with pain, anxiety, and fear. After giving much thought to the matter, my firm decided to represent her.

Nearly two years later, we were able to settle her case for the amounts we thought were not only justified but fair and reasonable under all the circumstances. It was an interesting situation for me as an attorney. In a way, I could be more straight forward with her—I didn't have to sugar coat my advice or act like a lawyer, I could just tell it to her like it was. On the other side, I found myself somewhat emotionally invested and had to be careful to take a step back and remember to keep my lawyer hat on and my brother hat off. Over the course of those two years, these are the ten things that stand out as most especially important advice during that process:

  1. Be patient, this is going to take some time, that's normal;
  2. Trust me, this is what I do for a living. You can make the decisions but listen to my advice;
  3. I know this is hard, and it's frustrating, and it's overwhelming. There is nothing I can do about that—it's a process;
  4. No amount of money will ever put you back to where you were before this happened. Money is all the law has to try and balance the scales, and it won't be enough, but I'll try to make it fair;
  5. Lean on your family during this time. They need you and you need them;
  6. I'll try and keep you as updated as I can and as is necessary, but there will be times when nothing is going on. Sometimes during those times I'm not the best at telling you that nothing is going on. If you want to know something or have a question, ask me;
  7. Litigation is expensive. It costs a lot of money to try a civil case and doing so is very risky. At some point the insurance company may offer an amount of money that might not be enough to fully compensate you, but is enough to tip the scales such the risk of doing worse at trial outweigh the benefits of doing better—that's when you know it's time to settle your case.
  8. This wasn't your fault. Don't blame yourself;
  9. Once we settle your case we're going to put some money in your pocket. It might be more than you expected, it might be less, but it's yours. Use that money to change your future, not your present;

It has literally been my pleasure to serve you. Though representing Kimberly was one of the most challenging and rewarding experiences of my career, I get the same satisfaction and joy by representing my non-family clients.

About the Author

Scott Edwards

Scott Edwards is a partner at Schauermann Thayer Jacobs Staples & Edwards law firm. Scott is licensed in both Oregon and Washington, and has been practicing law since 2008. Though Scott started his career working for insurance companies, he now focuses his practice on personal injury, auto accident, biking accident, and insurance cases. In his free time, Scott enjoys spending time pedaling around the streets of Vancouver, Washington and Portland, Oregon on his bicycle.


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